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Stop psychology, do reality

There is a lot of psychology that goes behind everything.

Everything means what you do, with whom you do it, why do you do it; and more than anything else, what is it that you’re doing.

So if you find yourself doing something or seeing something that you aren’t very proud of or that you shouldn’t be saying, that’s probably because you need to change your company.

Just reading this you people think that it’s not possible.

Well everything that you once thought impossible once is just a simple thing for you today.

What you really need to do is make a decision and not only make a decision. Also, make a decision in your habits that no matter what, you will not do it and when you make that decision every single day just watch your life change.

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Breaking the norms

To break the norms does not mean break the legal norms and go murder the person you’ve desperately wanting to do for years.

Breaking the norms, may seem useful (and powerful) when you break the ones that are not serving you, like:

  • You may choose to go workout instead of making tea for someone who is already busy getting obese. (Love begins with the one in the mirror.)
  • You may choose to get up from a boring meeting and come back after a 10-minute walk (your mind and body get recharged by missing out on irrelevant stuff.)
  • You may choose to cook a ten-minute khichdi versus waiting for a quick 30-minute calorie filled home delivery.
  • You may choose to send that email you know you have been waiting to send, versus scrolling a meme page on Instagram.
  • You may choose to do a quick reading of at least two pages, versus listening to gossips of others on your metro ride.

You have tonnes of norms to break, that aren’t serving the society. More than that, you.

Will you break the norms for You?

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Isn’t jumping in still better than reclining?

There’s this pool you want to jump into.

But on the outside, it looks too deep, too dangerous, perhaps terminal to jump into.

Hey, wait…you know that voice that’s telling you it’s dangerous, because you surely know it isn’t yours.

It’s the voice of people who are sitting at the back, and haven’t ever had the audacity to even walk up to the edge of the pool.

You clearly know it isn’t your voice.

Then a strange thing happens.

You jump into the pool, and realise it wasn’t that deep or that terrific at all.

Maybe sitting back on recliners and boohoo-ing isn’t so peaceful and powerful as jumping in feels like.

Now that you’re able to navigate that pool, here’s my question to you: “What if, the pool is actually too deep and dangerous, and is tougher than you thought?

Isn’t jumping in still better, so you develop your skills to the next level, instead of staying away from arena for the rest of your life?”

Isn’t jumping in still better than reclining?

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There’s no way

When you say there’s no way, that time also you’re creating a way.

The way is, to go for a walk and then take no decision.

Maybe you don’t need to stop, you just need to take a break.

Maybe you don’t need to take a break, you just need to know where you are and where you wanna go.

It’s okay to be okay when it’s not okay. Just be okay with it. You will reach a place of being okay.

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A tough decision

Any decision that seems tough at the outset is not at all tough, though.

We just need to analyse what and how are we going to “feel” on choosing Option A over B.

What’s really tough, is taking out time to sit in solitude with yourself and work on mastering your mind.

When you start devoting that time to that daily, making tough decisions becomes the easiest thing to do.

The question, then, is to consider: “Am I willing to work upon myself to be able to ignore the lifetime regrets of taking wrong decisions?”

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You are as good as…

…what information you feed your mind with.

…what people you surround yourself with.

…what you DECIDE not to think.

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Time

You have time.

…well, if you schedule your days.

And also decide what you will do next when

a. your schedule falls apart

b. your old habits take over

Now go and make it huge. You have time.