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Any business relationship we enter into, we may either feel it’s great or we may feel something is not right at all.
On the surface everything may look cool, you won’t be able to point out what.
Yet you know in your heart that this business relationship is not going to work right.
Be a little right to yourself, and walk out from there. Only when you get away from wrong, will the right make space in your life.
The cost of right is simply giving up the need of validation from others.
The cost of wrong: your conscience.
Even when we see that people are doing wrong, they are doing it right.
They are. From their point of view.
If you want to go out with me, behave like this.
What if, I accept you, where you are, just as you are, without giving up on who I am?
Every relationship, business or life, begins and ends with allowing the other person to just be.
Sadly, most of us expect them to leave their zones and come into ours, just because we feel it’s right.
If it indirectly means that they’re wrong, is telling the other person to be wrong an act of righteousness?
Who does the right thing these days?
Those who want to sleep peacefully, not take insomnia medicines, and those who rise higher single single day.
Every day, is a day to perform.
Or, every day, is a day to give up on who you are meant to be, by not being that and doing the wrong thing.
What shall you doeth, Caesar?
Starting with “to get something” is a dangerous place to be, because it makes you vulnerable.
Start with giving relentlessly.
Without the intention of receiving.
Without worrying about whether they’ll give you what you want.
Just with the intention of making their world better.
Why to do that, you may ask.
Because in order to let them decide freely and give it to you, you really need to let them know that you care. Like your parents did, and you’re ready to do anything for them, right?
You could be pointing out what others are doing wrong.
You could even show strict evidences against it and show them on social media.
You could even probably share how you reached that conclusion.
And that all may be right. A hundred percent.
With a bit of problem: when we dig out dirt, what invariably tags along is foul smell.
That’s what bad thoughts and useless actions and irrelevant comments do to us.
You are a priceless human being created in the glory of the creator that created You. Don’t accumulate dust by taking in everything what others are not doing right.
A lot of people walk around the world with the purpose to prove themselves – prove that they are right, prove that they have achieved a lot, prove that there is nothing that can pierce them, etc.
While all of that may be true, what it does is, sap away all our energy and efforts that could be used to create another masterpiece.
Remember, masterpieces can be created only by those who are polite, humble and most importantly, giver of qualities. And you can be giver of qualities NOT by speaking them rather by living them.
One who tries to prove is perhaps arrogant and arrogance can never lead to power, even if it does, it is more of fear than real power.
Hence, use your power to create more masterpieces, to use less of me and you, and more of us, and more than anything else, to uplift everyone else in your presence and never to prove.
You are what you do.
What you do, is who you are.
Who you are, is what you nurture every single day.
What you nurture every single day, are the thoughts that get into your head.
What thoughts get into your head, depends on what you do in your days – whether you read inspirational stuff or you scroll through social media feeds waiting for validation.
This brings life to a full circle – what you do (output), is totally related with what you do (input).
To get the output right, you know you need to focus on input and make it superpowerful.