What do you stand for?

If something in the work goes wrong, do you own it up or let it hide under the covers – until it finally does come out!

If someone in the team has failed to deliver on a project, do you help them out or do you go to the manager?

If someone in family wants a solution, do you sit and listen?

What we stand for, stands along with us.

What we do, becomes our bio-data.

The real choice is when we have a dilemma, not when life is vanilla.

Where differences are possible…

It’s okay to have someone have different skill set.

It’s totally okay to have someone think differently.

However to have someone around you with different values is a stab on your own values.

Not going to help anyone, maybe going to rob you of your creativity, productivity and ultimately happiness.

To soothe you…

1. Everyone is simply doing their best. Even if it is hard to admit, it is the truth.

2. Your role is to love. Starting with you.

3. Your role is to improve yourself. Everything else will eventually rise.

4. People making it to the world records – don’t have to make you feel worried – if that’s not where you want to be.

5. It will all be sorted out in the end. What you need to take control of, is today.

About finding your answers

If any question had a straight answer, life would not be the way it is today.

And the way it is today, is how it is supposed to be.

The meaning of life is to fall in love with the process. The meaning of life is to take action, only then you will enjoy the pauses.

If you feel lost, if you don’t know where do you want to go, if you don’t know what’s next, here’s the reality: you can find it.

You have found out a lot of answers in the past.

If you are willing to take action, you will figure out the answer.

If you are not taking action because you are lost, then you have already lost.

No action = Assured Failure

Action = Experience or Success. Both are valuable.

Insecurity

Maybe someone could get better at your work and take over your job.

Maybe someone could take away your best friend or your sister away from you.

Maybe the colleagues who respect you so much would stop doing it.

It looks scary to lose what you have and where you are at.

How about this:

You will have to give up everything external one day. Why not build an irreplaceable internal resource?

The best way to be liked by others

The best way to be liked by others is to love yourself first.

The best way to bring that change is to be the change, as Gandhi said.

The best way to change the world is to change yourself first.

We probably know all the answers. What we perhaps need to do, is to tell yourself you are the answer.