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Sometimes it is the mistake of others.
Sometimes someone else’s mistake may cost you a lot of years or maybe even your career.
Sometimes a whole lifetime is not enough to rectify what others did.
The question is,
“How are you going to live the rest of your life?”
If blaming them could help, it would have already helped you out.
If blaming them couldn’t help, let’s think of a different story.
Starting today.
When we were there, you don’t know what happened…
I went through such a big hell…
There was a crisis…
You don’t know what tragedy I went through…
I wish that didn’t happen…
While all of the above is the biggest truth, and while you may have been through a big hell, just remember this:
“More you dig out dirt, more you will be the first one to bear its foul smell.”
Are you sure you wanna live your entire life like that?
We make resolutions and they keep on adding up.
And then we make further resolutions.
The files keep getting bigger.
What if, we do something different: like execution? What if, this time it really looks different? What if…
Wait…
What will you do NOW? After this scrolling and swiping? Now?
There are times you don’t feel good.
There are times when people aren’t happy with your happiness.
There are times when people want to control you.
Amidst all this, just remember:
Now go handle your life’s situations with gratitude.
If you think it’s easy for pro’s to get up and do the workout daily, you’re wrong.
No one, absolutely no one wants to go through the grind.
They still go through it, because the feeling that comes after the hard work, is unmatchable.
Don’t go with what you are going through. Go with what you want to go through.
Focus on power of future versus what pain it brings in the present.
There will come a time when your righteousness will be tested. People will question your energy, your positivity and most importantly, your values.
That question won’t be direct. It will be in the form of allegation, bad words or perhaps even threat.
Now you’re left with two options:
Option I:
Justify yourself.
When you don’t have that authority, justify yourself in your head.
Option II:
Understand. Questioning you may be because of only two reasons:
a) They are not too fond of you. Perhaps your high vibes make them want to try more. When they can’t, the easiest way is to bring you down.
In this situation, simply stop. Even if they are totally wrong, what they need is to be “right”. Work on yourself to calmly respond and put your point forward. Then don’t get attached to they accepting it. Bless them, and keep working within.
b) They said something that really needs to change in you, their method was however not right.
In this situation, determine to work on yourself. And for the adage “be respectful”, you start at your end by respecting the person who disrespected you. Your respect to them (from within) will be the best gift to them.
You have the self respect not to be sensitive to someone else’s way of being. That way, you empower the world.
Today. Be.
There is a reason why ratio and proportion were taught to us as kids.
Just like you discovered a reason about how that bad thing of the past led you to your biggest joys.
Coming to proportion, the success you receive is directly proportionate to the efforts you put in.
While putting in those efforts, while working hard, very hard, it is always important to remember your roots.
This could be a great way to starting to remember your roots.