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Some people (still!) never upload a picture of themselves online.
Not that they hate themselves, however they are scared that their picture may be misused.
The point is, not to make you upload your picture.
The point is, to tell you, that if in the worst case your picture is used to be made fun of, it won’t ever reach you.
If it reaches your loved ones, don’t they trust you?
More than anything else, isn’t it a real fear of being seen?
Be seen. We need your example to be enlightened from.
You post content to be liked.
Or may be you post it because you want to share some inspiration.
The reason could be any. The intention, couldn’t be any.
The intention, your vibes, your positivity, and your power, reaches way before you say or post anything.
And it’s a powerful journey.
When people know who you are, what you do starts making sense automatically.
Starting with “to get something” is a dangerous place to be, because it makes you vulnerable.
Start with giving relentlessly.
Without the intention of receiving.
Without worrying about whether they’ll give you what you want.
Just with the intention of making their world better.
Why to do that, you may ask.
Because in order to let them decide freely and give it to you, you really need to let them know that you care. Like your parents did, and you’re ready to do anything for them, right?
“I deserved better.”
When you say it, a lot of the times it is the truth. Maybe you did deserve better.
The question, now, is:
One, if it was up to someone else to decide, did you communicate it to them?
Two, if it was up to you, did you sit down to analyse how you could have made it better or marketed it better?
You did deserve better, all truth.
Did you make the best of the present of the present or did you dwell on the past that has already passed?
If knowledge were power, everyone would be powerful, especially in this era of internet.
Then why isn’t everyone powerful?
Because of two reasons:
1. People don’t implement.
2. Before sharing knowledge, people don’t sit back and radiate power to others. If they did that, everyone else would feel it and life would be more powerful, less powerless.
Isn’t this is what you are looking for?
People may be not behaving according to you.
However you don’t know how good they may be.
If one lesson life has taught me over and over again is this: NO ONE has earned your rudeness.
If you don’t be careful, you’ll walk around the world as someone who takes away their happiness.
And you don’t want to be one.
To get great work done, to be someone who achieves excellent success, to be someone who is loved by everyone, you need to take an important step.
Which is, to forget who they were yesterday.
If we keep on collecting baggage of someone else’s misdoings in our head, we may have to walk this earth alone, and in anger.
That’s not a very good way to live.
…what information you feed your mind with.
…what people you surround yourself with.
…what you DECIDE not to think.
Do you know why it’s so important to not give a damn to what others think?
So that you could actually impact them.
When you actually impact them through your own work, people will understand the negative beliefs they have been carrying for years.
When they change their beliefs by seeing you as an example, then they will cause another chain reaction. All because of you.
You exist not to listen to them.
You exist for them. To take them from “unaware about life” to “owning their life”.
Do think about what they say. Think for them and say nothing; do infinite things. That’s your North Star.
There will come a time when your righteousness will be tested. People will question your energy, your positivity and most importantly, your values.
That question won’t be direct. It will be in the form of allegation, bad words or perhaps even threat.
Now you’re left with two options:
Option I:
Justify yourself.
When you don’t have that authority, justify yourself in your head.
Option II:
Understand. Questioning you may be because of only two reasons:
a) They are not too fond of you. Perhaps your high vibes make them want to try more. When they can’t, the easiest way is to bring you down.
In this situation, simply stop. Even if they are totally wrong, what they need is to be “right”. Work on yourself to calmly respond and put your point forward. Then don’t get attached to they accepting it. Bless them, and keep working within.
b) They said something that really needs to change in you, their method was however not right.
In this situation, determine to work on yourself. And for the adage “be respectful”, you start at your end by respecting the person who disrespected you. Your respect to them (from within) will be the best gift to them.
You have the self respect not to be sensitive to someone else’s way of being. That way, you empower the world.
Today. Be.
A lot of people want to correct what’s wrong.
It ain’t working.
Start accepting.
They will automatically change.
You know why?
Because you did.
You will fail.
And you will fail.
And then you will rise like a shining star, that no one does.
And when you have had that success, remember to never get accustomed to it.
You will be called as successful, if you always keep on learning and making others powerful.
Isn’t it okay to appreciate someone when they fail?
A lot of people feign their success on social media because sadly we’d all been appreciated in childhood only when we succeeded.
Maybe along with
•bringing value
•engaging with right people
•making our mark
“accepting and appreciating people” for where they are in their journey, should also be one of the criteria for people to come online.
Every SINGLE one of us who has ever been successful, knows the failures that went behind it.
Appreciate those failures in someone else might give you relief as well, for being the emotional support of someone when perhaps you didn’t have it when you needed it.
If someone goes out to people and tells them to buy from them straight away, no one will.
If someone else builds their brand and then showcases their products/services, then people would buy from them.
Then there are the third category of people.
Who make change happen by their very presence.
The people, when their ego is attacked, identify it and get back to their awesome state immediately.
As difficult it may be, be That Person.
If someone goes out to people and tells them to buy from them straight away, no one will.
If someone else builds their brand and then showcases their products/services, then people would buy from them.
Then there are the third category of people.
Who make change happen by their very presence.
The people, when their ego is attacked, identify it and get back to their awesome state immediately.
As difficult it may be, be That Person.
Who all said that authenticity requires seriousness in speech?
No way!
People tell you that in order to connect with people, you need to be authentic.
Well, they also need to tell you that in order to be authentic with them, you need to bring out the fun side of you.
Bring out the one-liner, fun side of you, time and again, and people will remember you because you were a human, a real intellingence, not an artificial intelligence.