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Dressing up like someone else.
Talking like someone else.
Talking to be liked by someone else, even though you want to be silent.
Going to disco because everyone (other than you) feels it’s cool.
Posting that content which “they” will like.
The list is endless, my friend. However, your life does have an end. The sad news is, you don’t know when.
Then waiting doesn’t make sense, right?
To not to be disturbed by the voice on the other side of the concall.
To respect other people’s timings.
To keep a smiling face.
To keep things sorted on a piece of paper.
To let yourself know you are the boss of your time, and to be so full that others are inspired by your way of being.
If there were a workshop where you were taught how to create your future, versus an astrologer offering you horoscopes, where would you go?
If you are like most people, you’d definitely love to go to the astrologer.
If you are not like most people and are still reading, use the following parameters to predict your future accurately:
A. If all that you do is for uplifting yourself and making your life better, your future looks bright.
B. If along with that, you ALWAYS have a big goal of making other people great and rise higher, there is nothing that can stop you.
O, btw, anyone going to the astrologer?
Do you know why people enjoy Netflix and other streaming services?
Do you know why people go for YouTube Premium?
Do you know why people get their car tanker filled up when they leave the city for a long drive?
Do you know why people book return tickets for their journeys?
Do you know what is the reason people want to spend so much time with their families?
Here’s the answer: Unrestricted.
Everything above is unrestricted and therefore, very appealing and promising.
What if you made your state of mind like this?
This is not impossible, it is simply a choice. A choice to get away from people (including family and friends) who bring you down. Simply don’t care and keep working on yourself with blessing them. IDC and I appreciate you.
Your unrestricted life requires unrestricted goodness and zero opposites.
Sounds good?
Five seconds.
Just five seconds.
Just five seconds before he would have known that it’s going to be over.
What would have crossed Kobe Bryant’s mind when that did happen?
Perhaps a feeling of satisfaction and happiness for living a life he was proud of.
Perhaps the fact that he should have said “I love you” more often to people who mattered the most.
Perhaps the tragedy to see his daughter die along with him.
Perhaps none of these.
Whatever that may be, none of us know the time till when we are here.
Neither the one with the most money, nor the one who knows the most influential people.
All of us are cut from the same cloth of anonymity.
That’s what makes this life worth understanding and living.
Understanding and living.
Not postponing. No more “my time will come”, rather, my time is already here.
Right now. Otherwise, literally, never.
The big set of problems.
Peopl asking a ton of questions.
People seeking for help.
People not understanding you.
To focus on your goals.
To create and be.
The list is endless.
Well, this is what you were put here on this plant earth: to figure out this thing called “life” and be proud that you did.
Sometimes it is the mistake of others.
Sometimes someone else’s mistake may cost you a lot of years or maybe even your career.
Sometimes a whole lifetime is not enough to rectify what others did.
The question is,
“How are you going to live the rest of your life?”
If blaming them could help, it would have already helped you out.
If blaming them couldn’t help, let’s think of a different story.
Starting today.
When we were there, you don’t know what happened…
I went through such a big hell…
There was a crisis…
You don’t know what tragedy I went through…
I wish that didn’t happen…
While all of the above is the biggest truth, and while you may have been through a big hell, just remember this:
“More you dig out dirt, more you will be the first one to bear its foul smell.”
Are you sure you wanna live your entire life like that?
We live in a messy world.
Or maybe we have created it so.
Or maybe the world is a beautiful place to be.
Or maybe…
…maybe you know all I am going to say that it is a matter of perception.
All that said and done, the world you and I outside is created by what we do within.
If you disagree, try thinking ONLY positive for the next twenty-four hours and notice the difference.
Deal?
Weekend is just round the corner.
Time to hang around.
With the same people, for the same results.
With the people you should be hanging around with (maybe in their books as well), for the results you know you should be getting.
Weekend is just round the corner, hang around peops!!! ✌🏻😎
Clarity, is clearly one of the biggest jewels of life.
When you have clarity, you don’t give a damn about what others think, because you are well on your own path, and that’s what matters.
However, what do you do when you don’t know what’s there in your path?
More that that, how do you have that confidence to march there freely?
Here’s a way I could help you out.
This one comes out as a small request.
To all those who smoke,
You’re not bad, however when when you get back indoors post a smoke, please please please do something to make sure that odour of smoking is not being radiated from you.
It makes the non-smokers feel suffocated and have an instant severe headache in some cases.
You may consider this as a small request from a family member who does not smoke and needs that level of space.
Thank you, and saying again, this is not to label anyone as “bad” (notwithstanding the fact that smoking KILLS), this is just a little request to make another little difference.
Beatles was right.
Love is all you need.
We all are made up of love, should not save it up like we’re going to retire on it. Rather use it a lot because you’re made up of it.
We’re living in an economy filled with fortune yet starving in love.
Yet, today businesses, work and of course, families need love more than anything else.
Lemme explain this in a small video here. Hope it would add value to you.
If others are not respecting you, that’s a feeling a lot of people don’t adore. Rather no one does.
A question to consider, before thinking of being respected by others:
“Do I really respect the way I am? Am I really proud of myself?”
Not the ego’s answer, the real answer.
Whatever the answer be (yes or no), you know what to do next.
Hint: Others were never in the picture.
You want to be like no one else.
On the top.
To be someone who is revered by others.
Do this then: Think about people before thinking about your own selfish interests.
Why, you may think.
Because, the best way to a great life to live beyond your capacity is to have a great stock of blessings.
So few people provide blessings for anything bad inflicted by us to them.
A lot of people will ask this question from you.
And make you believe so.
If you could do one thing to yourself, just spend time with people whose lives you adore, and not who make you hate yourself.
You matter. People you say your life is a waste, usually don’t think any better for themselves.
You may post on Day 1 and it is going to be fun.
You may post on Day 2 and it still goes okay.
You may want to do your 10th post on Day 31.
And then there are people who make it to the top, because they moved beyond the fear of 278th post that didn’t do well, and are still on their work ethic.
Do you know why?
Because they’re not random “post because it’s fancy” kinda people. Rather because, they post to make a difference. If not this one, the next one definitively will make a difference.
Because past 277 posts were not in vain. They did make a difference, even to a single person, and that compound interest is enough to keep them going.
And that very non-execution creates non-executors.
When your work starts getting recognised…
When more people know your good name…
When the stakes attached with your name are higher…
When the opponent starts looking into your window to check what’s happening…
…amidst all that, remember to keep doing the things that made you successful in the first place.
It’s so easy to fall into the trap of rising higher and leaving the dust behind. However, the more you learn to stay closer to the dust, the lesser will you be vulnerable to falling behind on your own path of success.
Of course you can. Start appreciating people for what they are good at and see their nature change.
Btw, the best way to change the nature of others is firstly by changing your own nature.
When your life example comes as a live example for everyone there is no way they can’t change.
This is what you are looking for.
If you think no one cares, think a little bit more.
Maybe you care too much to allow other people to drive that thought.
Here’s the thing: if you are in a powerful and peaceful state of mind, you will have a knack to give to others, versus asking them to care.
You’ll know they care, and you’ll know that because you take care or yourself.