Let’s say you don’t know what to do when a friend does not respond to an important message of yours.
When you say: “I don’t know,” it is rather you deciding to overlook the option of staying calm mentally as well as physically.
The journey is never of the answer. The journey is of acceptance. You know it. When you do, how are you going to handle it? Most of us don’t know how to handle ourselves. Learning that, is the goal.
You went through a lot of bad stuff – that is the truth.
Fortunately, that’s not the problem.
The problem is, how many times the mishap is repeated inside our head and in our words.
Repetition is what makes the difference. Place is repetition hardly matters. What really matters is the doer and the deed.
The solution, then, is to reduce the frequency of repetition. The method, then, is to be the master of your thoughts. The fortunate thing, then, is that you can control it.
Today as I entered my room, I wondered if I was really happy.
In the process of earning money, in the process of figuring out life, in the process of understanding how things work, make sure happiness is your real currency.
If you are’t happy, you aren’t happy.
It’s that simple.
If you want to know how I chased my happiness from the place of insecurity, you may want to check out this video. It’s the most vulnerable I’ve ever been.